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You know, it really looks kinda pretty from this point of view, doesn’t it?
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Bringing Up Baby directed by Howard Hawks. (french poster) Artwork by Bernard Lancy.
One of my favorite movies. Funny as hell.
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Deep into that darkness peering, long I stood there, wondering, fearing, doubting, dreaming dreams no mortal ever dared to dream before.
Edgar Allan Poe (via caffeinatedcats)(Source: sarahseratonin, via caffeinatedcats)
I’ve gotten used to the idea of everybody else having you.
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This is my life mantra.
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This is me, now.
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I have to watch this again.
SEX. ON. FIRE.
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- January 1
- , 2012
I hope that in this year to come, you make mistakes.
Because if you are making mistakes, then you are making new things, trying new things, learning, living, pushing yourself, changing yourself, changing your world. You’re doing things you’ve never done before, and more importantly, you’re Doing Something.
So that’s my wish for you, and all of us, and my wish for myself. Make New Mistakes. Make glorious, amazing mistakes. Make mistakes nobody’s ever made before. Don’t freeze, don’t stop, don’t worry that it isn’t good enough, or it isn’t perfect, whatever it is: art, or love, or work or family or life.
Whatever it is you’re scared of doing, Do it.
Make your mistakes, next year and forever.
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Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.
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Recently, while reading some ”My secret” column, you know the ones where a reader ask a question and the columnist answers and they are usual themes being love, cheating, marriage, etc, I found an interesting comment.
And, and painfully honest and real truth.
”—— my, God…It’s as it we are all characters in a Christmas play,and depending if we are the little child, or the young couple, or the old men watching, we are all passing through the same roles…today you are a lover to a married man, tomorrow you are comforting your friend who is being cheated by her husband, the day after you are checking your husbands mobile phone because he is acting kinda odd…then you get a divorce, then you first chase the younger meat, and then end up with a married man… And then you judge the first or the second or the third, depending with whom you are talking…and for all that time your children are getting older and starting the same circle from the start- it’s all the same people, just depends in which part of their life you caught up with them…Then and there, somebody steps out of the circle, and then everybody is shocked and can’t stop blaming them…”
I am a very liberal person, when it comes to others. I undestand cheating, lovers, men sleeping with other women, women staying with cheating husbands, I understand women playing around with other men, women. I really do- I don’t judge. I find no moral role there- and I despise that good old ”my man would never do that!” Oh, yes sister he would.
In my perspective, the problem is that you sister wouldn’t. Why? Who says that love lasts forever? Who says people can’t be friends with benefits and be happy about it? You’ll say- that always ends bad. So what, it ends. So what, it lasted while it lasted.
People get divorced. They stop loving each other. They stop wanting each other and start wanting somebody else.
So what?
Why judge it, why be shocked, why be disgusted by it?
Why the morality?
No, my parents didn’t get divorced. Yes they are still married. They are living countries away but still talk on Skype for 2h every day. But had they?
Had they found new loves?
So what?
Maybe there is something wrong with me.
Yes, I know, awful of me to condone adultery. But, if it works for the family…
I don’t believe in love forever. I do believe in chemistry among people, different people. You found your soulmate in the girl/boy next door? Ok, I’ll buy that. But one day you are going to move out, and realize that that one doesn’t fit anymore. People change, so it’s only normal that what we are looking for in people change.
Some people say that they find true loves in the same town, in the same street. Come on, take a look around! We just reached a population of 7 billion! Do you really think that you will never feel that spark for anyone in those 7 billion? Do you care to tell me that you know that for certain?
So, I don’t belive in forever. Nothing is forever.
It can be strong, you can live your life on it, but don’t put it into boundaries.
Don’t live your life in a cage just because it is moral, right thing to do, by god or by what ever you were taught up to believe.
Breake the mould, the cage and live your life, and don’t fool yourself with morality- it never did anybody any good.
As long as it is not punishable by law (and Criminal law by that) it’s allowed.
S.
- November 14
- , 2011
